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200 This or That Questions for Kids

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Two hundred this or that questions for kids aged 6 to 12, in ten groups: food, animals, outdoors, school, home, play, silly ones, stories and music, places, and a last group about your kid. Most are a few words and a question mark, so a six-year-old can answer in a second.

In this deck · 10 groups
01

Food

Pizza or tacos?

Then ask: What would you put on the one you picked?

  1. Pancakes or waffles?

    Then ask: What makes one better for syrup?

  2. Ice cream or cake?

    Then ask: Which one would you want at your birthday if you could only have one?

  3. Sweet or salty?

    Then ask: What snack would you pick right now?

  4. Apples or bananas?

    Then ask: Which one is easier to take to school, and why?

  5. French fries or mashed potatoes?

    Then ask: Is it the taste or the way you eat it?

  6. Breakfast for dinner or dinner for breakfast?

    Then ask: What would be on the plate?

  7. Spicy or mild?

    Then ask: Have you changed your mind about this as you got older?

  8. Chocolate or vanilla?

    Then ask: What would you say to someone who picked the other one?

  9. Cereal or toast?

    Then ask: What is the best way to make it?

  10. Hot dog or hamburger?

    Then ask: Where is the best place to eat it?

  11. Cookies or brownies?

    Then ask: Would you rather bake them or just eat them?

  12. Popcorn or pretzels?

    Then ask: When is each one the right snack?

  13. Juice or milk?

    Then ask: What do you drink when you are really thirsty?

  14. Grapes or strawberries?

    Then ask: Which one would you grow if you had a garden?

  15. Peanut butter or jelly?

    Then ask: Why do people put them together?

  16. Soup or salad?

    Then ask: What kind of day is it a soup day?

  17. Eat out or eat at home?

    Then ask: What is better about the one you did not pick?

  18. Try a new food or stick with a favorite?

    Then ask: What is the last new food you liked?

  19. Cook dinner or set the table?

    Then ask: Which job do you think is harder?

That speed is the fun part, and it is also why the answers stay short. Under each question there is a follow-up. Ask it after the pick, and "pizza" turns into what goes on the pizza and why.

For longer choices with more to argue about, try the would you rather questions.

How to play

Read a question and both of you answer on the count of three. If you match, high five. If you don't, each of you gets one sentence to win the other over.

To make it a guessing game, one person answers in secret and the others guess the pick before it is said out loud. Kids find out fast how well they know their parents, and the other way round.

With a class, point to one side of the room for "this" and the other for "that." Kids walk to their side, and you ask one or two from each side for their reason. Twenty questions fill ten minutes of a morning meeting.

21

Animals

Cats or dogs?

Then ask: What would your pet need from you every day?

  1. Lions or tigers?

    Then ask: How would you tell them apart without looking at the color?

  2. Dolphins or sharks?

    Then ask: Which one do people get wrong more often?

  3. Owls or eagles?

    Then ask: What does each one do better?

  4. Horses or cows?

    Then ask: Which one would you rather take care of on a farm?

  5. Penguins or polar bears?

    Then ask: Could they ever meet? Where do they live?

  6. Butterflies or ladybugs?

    Then ask: What does each one do in a garden?

  7. Bunnies or hamsters?

    Then ask: Which one would be happier in your house?

  8. Dinosaurs or dragons?

    Then ask: What is the difference between something that was real and something made up?

  9. Monkeys or elephants?

    Then ask: Which one do you think is smarter, and how would you test it?

  10. Fish tank or bird cage?

    Then ask: Which pet would you feel bad keeping inside?

  11. Frogs or turtles?

    Then ask: Which one would you rather watch for an hour?

  12. Zoo or aquarium?

    Then ask: What animal would you go to see first?

  13. Big dog or small dog?

    Then ask: What can one do that the other cannot?

  14. Bees or ants?

    Then ask: How does each one work as a team?

  15. Wolves or foxes?

    Then ask: Which one lives in a group, and which lives mostly alone?

  16. Spiders or snakes?

    Then ask: Which one would you be braver around, and why?

  17. Pet a giraffe or ride a camel?

    Then ask: What would you be most nervous about?

  18. Be a bird or be a fish?

    Then ask: What would you see that you cannot see now?

  19. Wild animals or farm animals?

    Then ask: What does a farm animal need from people?

41

Outdoors and weather

Beach or mountains?

Then ask: What would you do on the first day there?

  1. Summer or winter?

    Then ask: What would you miss about the other one?

  2. Sunny day or rainy day?

    Then ask: What is the best thing to do on a rainy day?

  3. Snow or sand?

    Then ask: Which one is better for building?

  4. Swing or slide?

    Then ask: What makes it fun?

  5. Camping in a tent or staying in a cabin?

    Then ask: What would you need to bring?

  6. Sunrise or sunset?

    Then ask: When did you last see one?

  7. Stars or clouds?

    Then ask: What shapes have you seen up there?

  8. Forest or desert?

    Then ask: What would you need to survive a day there?

  9. Pool or lake?

    Then ask: What is in a lake that is not in a pool?

  10. Bike or scooter?

    Then ask: Where would you ride it?

  11. Hiking or biking?

    Then ask: Which one lets you see more?

  12. Thunderstorm or snowstorm?

    Then ask: What do you do while it is happening?

  13. Spring or fall?

    Then ask: What changes outside that tells you it is here?

  14. Climb a tree or dig a hole?

    Then ask: What might you find?

  15. Kite or paper airplane?

    Then ask: How would you make it go farther?

  16. Puddle jumping or leaf piles?

    Then ask: Which one gets you in more trouble?

  17. Picnic or barbecue?

    Then ask: Who would you invite?

  18. Wind or fog?

    Then ask: What does each one feel like on your face?

  19. Garden or playground?

    Then ask: What would you change about the one near you?

61

School

Math or reading?

Then ask: What is the hardest part of the one you did not pick?

  1. Art or music?

    Then ask: What would you make if you had a whole afternoon?

  2. Science or history?

    Then ask: What is one thing you learned in it that surprised you?

  3. Recess or lunch?

    Then ask: What happens there that does not happen in class?

  4. Pencil or pen?

    Then ask: When do you want to be able to erase?

  5. Homework right after school or after dinner?

    Then ask: When does your brain work best?

  6. Work alone or in a group?

    Then ask: What goes wrong in a group, and how would you fix it?

  7. Field trip or class party?

    Then ask: Where would you want the field trip to go?

  8. Front row or back row?

    Then ask: What do you notice from that seat?

  9. Spelling test or math test?

    Then ask: How do you get ready for it?

  10. Teacher reads aloud or you read on your own?

    Then ask: What is different about hearing a story and reading it?

  11. Gym or library?

    Then ask: What would you do there if you had it to yourself?

  12. Write a story or draw a comic?

    Then ask: What would happen in it?

  13. Backpack or tote bag?

    Then ask: What is always at the bottom of your bag?

  14. Short school day or short summer break?

    Then ask: Which one would you trade, and for what?

  15. Be the teacher for a day or the principal for a day?

    Then ask: What is the first thing you would change?

  16. Morning announcements or end-of-day bell?

    Then ask: What would you say on the announcements?

  17. Bus or car ride to school?

    Then ask: What do you do on the way?

  18. Answer a question in class or ask one?

    Then ask: Which one takes more courage?

  19. Easy grade or hard lesson you remember?

    Then ask: What is something hard you learned that you are glad you know?

81

Home and family

Bath or shower?

Then ask: When do you need the one you did not pick?

  1. Top bunk or bottom bunk?

    Then ask: What is the downside of your pick?

  2. Messy room or clean room?

    Then ask: Who is it messy for, you or everyone else?

  3. Early bird or night owl?

    Then ask: What is the best part of your favorite time of day?

  4. Big family dinner or snack in front of a movie?

    Then ask: What do people talk about at the table?

  5. Board game night or movie night?

    Then ask: Which board game would you pick?

  6. Help with cooking or help with the yard?

    Then ask: What would you want to learn to do on your own?

  7. Your own room or share with a sibling?

    Then ask: What is good about sharing that people forget?

  8. Grandparents visit you or you visit them?

    Then ask: What do you do together?

  9. Wash the dishes or fold the laundry?

    Then ask: Which chore would you trade away forever?

  10. Blanket fort or tent in the yard?

    Then ask: How would you build it?

  11. Quiet house or noisy house?

    Then ask: What sounds do you hear at home right now?

  12. Pajamas all day or dressed up all day?

    Then ask: Where would you go in each?

  13. Family road trip or family staycation?

    Then ask: Where would the road trip go?

  14. Be the oldest kid or the youngest kid?

    Then ask: What does each one get that the other does not?

  15. Plan the weekend or be surprised?

    Then ask: What would you plan?

  16. Family photo or family video?

    Then ask: What would you want to remember from this year?

  17. Breakfast together or dinner together?

    Then ask: What makes a meal together feel good?

  18. Pick the music in the car or pick the snacks?

    Then ask: What would you put on?

  19. Talk at bedtime or read at bedtime?

    Then ask: What is the best thing to talk about before sleep?

101

Play and sports

Soccer or basketball?

Then ask: What position would you play?

  1. Hide and seek or tag?

    Then ask: Are you better at hiding or seeking?

  2. Lego or puzzles?

    Then ask: What is the biggest thing you have built or finished?

  3. Video games or board games?

    Then ask: Which one is more fun to lose at?

  4. Win a game or learn a new trick?

    Then ask: What is a trick you would want to learn?

  5. Team sport or solo sport?

    Then ask: What do you get from a team that you do not get alone?

  6. Dance or gymnastics?

    Then ask: What move would you want to master?

  7. Play the game or make up the rules?

    Then ask: What rule would you add to a game you know?

  8. Card games or dice games?

    Then ask: Which one has more luck in it?

  9. Jump rope or hula hoop?

    Then ask: How long do you think you could keep going?

  10. Swimming or skating?

    Then ask: What was hard when you first learned it?

  11. Play outside or play inside?

    Then ask: What is your favorite thing to play in each place?

  12. Watch a game or play in one?

    Then ask: What do you notice when you watch that you miss when you play?

  13. Chess or checkers?

    Then ask: What do you have to think about in chess that you do not in checkers?

  14. Coach or player?

    Then ask: What would you tell your team before a big game?

  15. Water balloons or snowballs?

    Then ask: What are the rules for a fair fight?

  16. Build a fort or build a sandcastle?

    Then ask: What would keep it from falling down?

  17. Practice one thing a lot or try lots of things a little?

    Then ask: What would you practice?

  18. Pretend play or real games?

    Then ask: What did you pretend to be when you were little?

  19. Trampoline or bounce house?

    Then ask: What is the best trick you can do?

121

Silly and impossible

Fly or be invisible?

Then ask: What would you do first with it?

  1. Talk to animals or speak every language?

    Then ask: Who would you talk to first?

  2. Time travel to the past or the future?

    Then ask: What year would you go to?

  3. Giant or tiny?

    Then ask: What would be hard about your new size?

  4. Hiccup every time you laugh or sneeze every time you smile?

    Then ask: When would it be the worst time for it to happen?

  5. Unicorn or dragon as a pet?

    Then ask: Where would it sleep?

  6. Live in a treehouse or a castle?

    Then ask: What would your room look like?

  7. Robot helper or magic wand?

    Then ask: What is the first job you would give it?

  8. Pirate or astronaut?

    Then ask: What would you discover?

  9. Wizard or superhero?

    Then ask: What would your rule be about using your powers?

  10. Never sleep or never eat?

    Then ask: What would you miss most?

  11. Read minds or see the future?

    Then ask: Would you tell anyone you could do it?

  12. Teleport or run super fast?

    Then ask: Where would you go after school?

  13. Have a tail or have wings?

    Then ask: What would you use it for every day?

  14. Live on the moon or under the sea?

    Then ask: What would you need to bring?

  15. Talking dog or flying cat?

    Then ask: What would the talking dog tell you?

  16. Shrink your parents or grow your pet?

    Then ask: What would go wrong first?

  17. Ice cream for every meal or no ice cream ever?

    Then ask: How long before you got tired of it?

  18. Be a cartoon or be in a video game?

    Then ask: Which cartoon or game would you live in?

  19. Swap places with your teacher or with your pet for a day?

    Then ask: What would you find out about them?

141

Stories, screens and music

Books or movies?

Then ask: What is a story you liked better in one than the other?

  1. Funny movie or scary movie?

    Then ask: How scary is too scary?

  2. Comics or chapter books?

    Then ask: What are you reading right now?

  3. Sing or dance?

    Then ask: What song would you pick?

  4. Cartoons or real people?

    Then ask: What can a cartoon show that real people cannot?

  5. Be in the story or write the story?

    Then ask: Who would you be in it?

  6. Hero or sidekick?

    Then ask: What does the sidekick do that the hero cannot?

  7. Happy ending or surprise ending?

    Then ask: What is a surprise ending you remember?

  8. Listen to a story or tell one?

    Then ask: Tell me the start of one right now.

  9. Drums or guitar?

    Then ask: What kind of band would you be in?

  10. Watch it again or try something new?

    Then ask: What have you watched the most times?

  11. Dragons in the story or robots in the story?

    Then ask: What would the dragon or robot want?

  12. Be famous or be rich?

    Then ask: What would change in your life?

  13. Audiobook or paper book?

    Then ask: Where do you like to listen or read?

  14. Draw or paint?

    Then ask: What would you make right now?

  15. Magic show or circus?

    Then ask: How do you think the trick works?

  16. Write a song or write a poem?

    Then ask: What would it be about?

  17. Movie theater or movie at home?

    Then ask: What is the best snack for it?

  18. Be in a play or work behind the stage?

    Then ask: What job backstage would you want?

  19. Villain with a good reason or hero with a bad temper?

    Then ask: Can a villain be right about something?

161

Places and travel

City or countryside?

Then ask: What would you do there on a Saturday?

  1. Plane or train?

    Then ask: What do you see from each window?

  2. Hotel or tent?

    Then ask: What would you miss from home?

  3. Visit a castle or a pyramid?

    Then ask: Who do you think lived or worked there?

  4. Amusement park or water park?

    Then ask: What ride would you go on first?

  5. Short trip far away or long trip close by?

    Then ask: Where would each one take you?

  6. Museum or science center?

    Then ask: What would you want to see up close?

  7. Hot place or cold place?

    Then ask: What would you pack?

  8. Window seat or aisle seat?

    Then ask: What do you do on a long ride?

  9. Map or GPS?

    Then ask: How would you find your way if both broke?

  10. Visit space or the bottom of the ocean?

    Then ask: What would you hope to find?

  11. Big new city or tiny island?

    Then ask: Who would you bring?

  12. Travel with friends or with family?

    Then ask: What would be different?

  13. Postcard or photo?

    Then ask: Who would you send it to?

  14. Souvenir or snack from the trip?

    Then ask: What is the best thing you have brought home from somewhere?

  15. Go back to a favorite place or go somewhere new?

    Then ask: Where is your favorite place so far?

  16. Lighthouse or windmill?

    Then ask: What is each one for?

  17. Farm or zoo?

    Then ask: What job would you want there?

  18. Snowy mountain cabin or beach house?

    Then ask: What would a perfect day there look like?

  19. Live where you are now or move somewhere new?

    Then ask: What would you have to leave behind?

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About you

Talk or listen?

Then ask: When do you wish people would listen more?

  1. Be brave or be kind?

    Then ask: Can you think of a time you needed both?

  2. Lots of friends or one best friend?

    Then ask: What makes someone a good friend?

  3. Plan ahead or go with the flow?

    Then ask: When did a plan go wrong for you?

  4. Lead or follow?

    Then ask: What makes a good leader?

  5. Be smart or be funny?

    Then ask: Who do you know who is both?

  6. Know a little about everything or a lot about one thing?

    Then ask: What would your one thing be?

  7. Give a present or get a present?

    Then ask: What is the best present you ever gave?

  8. Win alone or lose with your team?

    Then ask: When does winning feel empty?

  9. Say sorry first or wait for them to?

    Then ask: Why is saying sorry hard?

  10. Help someone in secret or help where everyone can see?

    Then ask: Does it count the same if nobody knows?

  11. Remember everything or forget the bad stuff?

    Then ask: Is there something bad you are glad you remember?

  12. Be the best in your class or improve the most?

    Then ask: Which one would make you prouder?

  13. Ask for help or figure it out yourself?

    Then ask: When should you ask?

  14. Be grown up now or stay a kid longer?

    Then ask: What can kids do that grown-ups cannot?

  15. Tell the truth and get in trouble or keep quiet?

    Then ask: What would happen next in each case?

  16. Be good at sports or good at art?

    Then ask: Which one could you get good at with practice?

  17. Have more time or more money?

    Then ask: What would you do with it?

  18. Change one thing about the world or one thing about your town?

    Then ask: How would you start?

  19. Be remembered for being kind or for being clever?

    Then ask: What would you want people to say about you?