One hundred debate topics for kids aged 6 to 12, in ten groups: silly ones to warm up, school, home, screens, animals, food, sports, fairness, bigger questions for older kids, and the future. None of them has a right answer, so any kid can take either side.
In this deck · 10 groups
Fun and silly
Is a hot dog a sandwich?
Then ask: If it is, is a taco a sandwich too? Where do you draw the line?
Is cereal a soup?
Then ask: What makes soup a soup: the bowl, the spoon, or the fact that it is hot?
Are cats better than dogs?
Then ask: What can a dog owner say that a cat owner cannot answer?
Should pineapple go on pizza?
Then ask: If people like it, does anyone get to say it is wrong?
Is it better to be a superhero or a supervillain?
Then ask: Who has more fun, and who has more friends?
Would a pirate make a better teacher than a robot?
Then ask: What would each one be terrible at?
Should socks always match?
Then ask: Who is hurt if they do not?
Is the middle of the cake better than the edge?
Then ask: What does the edge piece have that the middle does not?
Should weekends be three days long?
Then ask: What would we have to give up to get the extra day?
Are dinosaurs cooler than dragons?
Then ask: Does it count that one of them was real?
Under each topic is the strongest point the other side would make. When your kid has picked a side and given a reason, ask it. A debate starts when someone has to answer an argument instead of just repeating their own.
How to debate at home
Pick a topic and let your kid choose a side. You take the other one, even if you agree with them.
Each of you gets one minute to make a case, then one minute to answer the other side. No interrupting. Then swap sides and do it again. Arguing for the side you don't believe is the hardest part, and the most useful one.
Nobody has to win. At the end, ask: "Did anything the other side said make sense to you?"
With a class, split the room in two, give each side three minutes to plan, and let each kid speak once. The silly topics are good for a first round, because nobody's feelings are tied up in hot dogs.
No one to debate with? Thonko takes the other side of any debate and asks your kid for a reason behind every point.
School
Should homework be banned in elementary school?
Then ask: Without homework, how would a teacher know what you can do on your own?
Should kids wear school uniforms?
Then ask: Would uniforms stop kids from judging each other, or would they find something else?
Should kids get to pick what they learn one day a week?
Then ask: What would you pick, and what might you never find out about?
Should there be school on Saturdays if summer break got longer?
Then ask: Which one would you miss more by August?
Should kids be allowed to have phones at school?
Then ask: What problem would it solve, and what new one would it make?
Should grades be replaced with written notes from the teacher?
Then ask: Which would tell your parents more?
Should students help choose their teachers?
Then ask: Would kids pick the easiest teacher or the best one?
Should every school have a class garden?
Then ask: Who would take care of it in the summer?
Is it better to sit at desks in rows or at tables in groups?
Then ask: When does sitting with friends help you learn, and when does it get in the way?
Should the school day end at noon on Fridays?
Then ask: What would happen to the things you learn on Friday afternoons now?
Home and family
Should kids get paid for doing chores?
Then ask: If you got paid, would you still help when nobody paid you?
Should the youngest kid in the family get to stay up as late as the oldest?
Then ask: What does staying up later actually depend on?
Is it better to be the oldest child or the youngest?
Then ask: What does the oldest one get to do first, and what does the youngest one get away with?
Should kids help decide where the family goes on vacation?
Then ask: How would you make it fair if everyone wanted something different?
Should kids have to finish everything on their plate?
Then ask: What happens to food that does not get eaten?
Should parents read their kids' messages?
Then ask: What would make it fair for a parent to look, and what would make it unfair?
Should every family eat dinner together every night?
Then ask: What happens to a family that never does?
Should kids pick their own clothes, even for special events?
Then ask: Who is the outfit for: you or the people at the event?
Is it fair for older kids to look after younger ones?
Then ask: What does the older kid learn from it?
Should kids be allowed to paint their own room any color they want?
Then ask: Whose room is it, and whose house is it?
Screens and games
Are video games good for kids?
Then ask: What can a game teach that a book cannot?
Should kids have a daily screen time limit?
Then ask: Is an hour of drawing on a tablet the same as an hour of videos?
Are board games better than video games?
Then ask: Which one is better at teaching you to lose?
Should kids under 13 be allowed on social media?
Then ask: What would a 10-year-old need to know before joining?
Is it better to read a book or watch the movie?
Then ask: Name a movie that was better than the book. Why was it?
Should kids be allowed to make their own videos online?
Then ask: Who might see it that you did not expect?
Should video games count as a sport?
Then ask: What makes something a sport: sweat, skill or competition?
Should phones be banned at the dinner table, for grown-ups too?
Then ask: What if a grown-up is waiting for an important call?
Is it okay for an AI to help with homework?
Then ask: Where does help end and doing it for you begin?
Should every kid learn to code?
Then ask: What would they stop learning to make time for it?
Animals and nature
Is it okay to keep animals in zoos?
Then ask: How would kids learn about tigers if there were no zoos?
Should every family have a pet?
Then ask: What about families with no time, no money or an allergy?
Should people be allowed to own exotic pets like snakes or monkeys?
Then ask: Who speaks up for the animal?
Is it better to live in the city or the countryside?
Then ask: What would you miss most if you moved to the other one?
Should people stop cutting down trees to build houses?
Then ask: Where would new families live?
Should plastic toys be banned?
Then ask: What would toys be made of instead, and would they cost more?
Should kids spend at least an hour outside every day?
Then ask: What about rainy days and kids who live in apartments?
Is it wrong to step on a spider?
Then ask: Does it matter if the spider is in your house or in the woods?
Should people bring back extinct animals if science lets them?
Then ask: Where would a mammoth live today?
Should every town have a no-cars day once a month?
Then ask: How would people who cannot walk far get around?
Food
Should schools sell only healthy food?
Then ask: Who decides what counts as healthy?
Should kids be allowed to have dessert every day?
Then ask: Does a small dessert every day beat a big one on weekends?
Is breakfast the most important meal of the day?
Then ask: How would you check if that is true?
Should candy ads be allowed on kids' TV shows?
Then ask: Do ads change what you want, or do you decide for yourself?
Should everyone learn to cook before they turn 12?
Then ask: What is the one dish everyone should know?
Is it okay to be a picky eater?
Then ask: What happens when a picky eater goes to a friend's house for dinner?
Should fast food restaurants give out toys with meals?
Then ask: Who is the toy really for?
Should people grow some of their own food?
Then ask: What would you grow, and what if it does not come up?
Is pizza a healthy meal if it has vegetables on it?
Then ask: What would make it healthy, and who gets to say?
Should everyone eat less meat?
Then ask: What would change for farmers if they did?
Sports and play
Should everyone on a team get the same playing time?
Then ask: What if the team loses because of it?
Is winning the most important part of a game?
Then ask: Why do people keep playing games they always lose?
Should kids' games keep score before age 8?
Then ask: Do little kids keep score in their heads anyway?
Should recess have a rule that everyone can join any game?
Then ask: What happens to a game that gets too big?
Is cheating okay if nobody gets hurt?
Then ask: Is there such a thing as cheating where nobody gets hurt?
Should kids play just one sport or try many?
Then ask: How do you get really good at something if you keep switching?
Should tag be allowed at recess?
Then ask: How would you make it safe without banning it?
Should there be a mercy rule that ends a game when one team is way ahead?
Then ask: Who is the rule really for: the winners or the losers?
Is it better to be on a team that always wins or one where you play every game?
Then ask: Which team would make you better?
Should grown-ups stay out of kids' games?
Then ask: When does a game need a grown-up?
Fair or not fair
Is it fair for the whole class to lose recess because of one kid?
Then ask: What does the teacher hope will happen next?
Should kids get an allowance even if they do nothing?
Then ask: What is an allowance for: to reward or to teach?
Is it okay to tell a small lie to protect someone's feelings?
Then ask: What if they find out later?
Should the person who finds lost money get to keep it?
Then ask: Does the amount change your answer?
Is it fair that grown-ups make most of the rules for kids?
Then ask: Which rule would you write, and who would it be unfair to?
Should you tell a teacher if a friend is breaking a rule?
Then ask: Does it matter which rule it is?
Should everyone get a prize just for taking part?
Then ask: What would make a real prize mean less?
Is it fair to save seats for your friends?
Then ask: How does it feel to be the one who cannot sit down?
Should kids be punished for something they did by accident?
Then ask: What should happen instead, if something still got broken?
Is it okay to keep a secret from your parents?
Then ask: What kind of secret is okay, and what kind is not?
Big questions for older kids
Should 16-year-olds be allowed to vote?
Then ask: What does someone need to know before they vote?
Should kids have a say in the rules of their school?
Then ask: How would you make sure every kid gets heard, not just the loud ones?
Should kids be allowed to have a part-time job before they turn 14?
Then ask: What would they learn, and what would they miss?
Should every kid learn a second language?
Then ask: Which language, and who chooses?
Should money be spent on going to Mars or on fixing problems on Earth?
Then ask: Could going to Mars help fix problems here?
Should robots do jobs that people do now?
Then ask: What should the people who did those jobs do next?
Is it better to be famous or to be happy without anyone knowing you?
Then ask: Can you be both, and what would that take?
Should museums give back objects that came from other countries?
Then ask: Who should own a thing that is thousands of years old?
Should everyone do a year of community service after high school?
Then ask: What if someone has to work to help their family?
Should there be a minimum age for owning a smartphone?
Then ask: What age, and what would have to be true about a kid to be ready?
Imagine the future
Will people live on other planets one day, and should they?
Then ask: What would you take with you, and what would you leave on Earth?
Should cars drive themselves?
Then ask: Who is to blame if a self-driving car makes a mistake?
Should schools be online instead of in a building?
Then ask: What would you miss that does not happen in a lesson?
Would it be good if people lived to 200?
Then ask: What would change about being a kid?
Should there be a robot in every home?
Then ask: What should a home robot never be allowed to do?
Should cash money disappear?
Then ask: Who would have a hard time without cash?
If we could control the weather, should we?
Then ask: Who decides when it rains?
Should everyone have a flying car?
Then ask: What would the sky look like at rush hour?
Should kids be able to talk to an AI friend?
Then ask: What can a real friend do that an AI cannot?
Will kids in 100 years think our toys were boring?
Then ask: What toy from today do you think will still be around?